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Swingers Next Door

You probably see a swinger everyday, only you don’t see them. Chances are that your neighbor, an associate at work or even a family member is a swinger. The sexually free are found in every community, and within every demographic. The LifeStyle is growing and reaching new levels all the time.

Only a few years ago, before the Internet era, swingers were essentially a secret society, meeting each other through dating magazines purchased at adult bookstores. Because of that, it was difficult to even guess at how many swingers there were.

Adult Swingers now, on the other hand, we can make fairly good estimates — based on information coming from a variety of sources (including the Internet).

Adult Swingers in the past, meeting another couple often took weeks of mailing photos and writing letters before the meeting actually took place. If you lucked out and happened to live near a swingers club, it probably wasn’t a very attractive or “upscale” place.

Today, the LifeStyle is evolving and becoming more mainstream. As the quality of swinger events, websites and clubs improves, more people are willing to join the fun.

The Internet LifeStyle dating websites have proven to be an invaluable tool for couples and singles looking to find like-minded adults. Whether you’re looking for something voyeuristic or a full-blown orgy, you can find it online. Looking for a gang-bang, or some bi fun? You can find it online.

Numerous studies and polls give widely varying results on how many swingers there really are. However, it’s pretty safe to assume that no less than one-half of a percent of the U.S. population is actively involved in some sort of sexual activity that falls into the general category of swinging.

Whether it’s same room sex, a threesome or even an orgy, many sexual activities are included. At a minimum these studies indicate that a lot of people are receptive to the idea of swinging.

Most likely, the percentage is much greater. As knowledge and freedom expand, so will the numbers that participate. Even given the low estimates of half a percent — that equals 1.5 million in the U.S. alone, or about 1 out of every 100 people of a sexually active age.

Many swingers, especially females, are active in the LifeStyle due to bisexual curiosity. The man at the grocery store who looked your wife up and down may not just be thinking about her being naked – he may be thinking about her being naked with his wife.

While most swinging is about two couples sharing fun and swapping partners, many swingers regularly participate in threesomes. Virtually all men fantasize about having two girls, and many women admit to fantasizing about sex with two men.

Adult Swingers, as each generation enters sexual maturity, with less sexually repressed attitudes, they are increasingly willing to experiment.

Just as it has become more socially acceptable to be gay or lesbian, sexual attitudes toward bisexuals and partner swapping are also changing. The taboo that society places on everything it categorizes as “out of the norm” has kept both homosexuals and swingers in the closet. But today it almost seems cool to be Gay. Perhaps in a few years, it will be the “in thing” to be a swinger.

Given the thousands of swinger clubs, resorts, conventions, websites, private parties and related events, it’s easy to agree that swingers are everywhere.

As information becomes more freely available via the Internet, more and more couples talk about it and decide to give it a try. In the past it was quite difficult and time consuming to meet like-minded people using the magazines gleaned from the adult bookstores and that made it easy to give up.

With the Internet, you’re only a few clicks away from finding thousands of swingers who are just what you’re looking for.

Even if you enter a distance range, age range and other basic criteria, there are still too many results to consider.

Narrow that search down and you’ve found several perfect matches that are only a few miles away. Looking for a couple with a bisexual female, between 35 and 40, within 20 miles? It’s easy to find hundreds of them on the Internet.

Additionally, LifeStyle clubs are evolving, becoming more elegant and attracting a broader range of people. Frequently, people in the LifeStyle attend a party or club and run into someone they know from work or some other social activity.

What Happens When You Go to a Swinger Party and You See Someone You Know?

Most swingers have a story about just such an occurrence. It usually goes something like this: “My wife and I go to swinger’s parties often and one party we went to was great — until our neighbor and his wife walked in. We were shocked and concerned that the whole neighborhood would find out. After you get over the initial shock, the best part is; my neighbor was thinking the same thing. Naturally, we all maintained our privacy, and we became great friends as well as neighbors.”

Most swingers learn not to talk about other swingers they know.   It’s called respect for privacy.  All seem to be very aware of the unwritten rules of privacy.  You’ll most likely find  swingers at the workplace, restaurants, strip club,  non-swinger party,  nude beaches and in many other places.

The misperception of Swingers is obviously not correct.  Most non-swingers “think” swingers are nothing but  fat over-weight middle aged disgusting perverts. However, swingers are usually average everyday people. They go to the grocery store, to the baseball game and to the movies.

Swingers can be skinny, fat, bodybuilders, ugly , gorgeous, athletic, disabled, rich, poor, unemployed, business owners, lawyers, doctors, nurses and hundreds of other types of people.

Swingers simply enjoy sharing their sexuality with those of like-minds while maintaining healthy boundaries.

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PrivateLifeStyles.com and staff

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