Swinger Myths

27 Myths about Swingers!

Myth 1:  All Swingers are ugly mid-aged fat people!
FACT: Swingers come in all shapes and sizes. You will find that swingers are adults of all ages.

Myth 2: Swingers are infested with STDs and dangerous people to play with.

Fact: Swingers are very safe-sex-conscious. As a rule, they are more about protecting their health than any other group of people. Single people usually carry more STDs. Swinging couples use more precautions than average people.

Myth 3: Swingers are about CHEATING partners.

Truth and Facts: Swingers believe that cheating is when partners are not honest with each other. Swinging couples are usually the emotionally loyal to each other while having the freedom to play with others. Swinging couples seldom feel a need to sneak and cheat like non-swinging couples do.

Myth 4: Only Couples with Dysfunctional Marriages become Swingers.

Truth: Successful swinging couples have very strong relationships with excellent communication and high honesty. Dysfunctional relationships should not become swingers.

Myth 5: Swingers are perverted and will have sex with anyone anytime.

Facts / Truth: Swingers, as a rule, are very selective who they have sex with. Swinging couples know it takes all four personalities to like each other. A common respect among every is essential. The wives always guide the flow of the evening.

Myth 6: Men want to experience swinging- women are seldom interested.

Truth: A ridiculous myth. Men, as well as women, are interested in “playing” with others. Some women enjoy playing with other women as well as with other men. Women are sexual creatures as much as men.

Myth 7: Couples who have THREESOMES are not really having a swinging experience.

Facts / Truth: Swinging covers a large variety of sexual scenarios.  Swinging does not always mean swapping partners. Swingers often have threesomes as well.

Myth 8: Only Couples are Swingers.

Truth: Couples, as well as singles, can be called swingers. While many swinging couples choose to only swing with other couples, many couples prefer playing with single men or women.  If a single woman plays with a couple, then she is engaging in swinging activities.

Myth 9: Swingers are basically evil and are full of sin and do not believe in God.

Fact / Truth: Many swingers are Christians and consider themselves Liberated Christians. There are literally thousands of faith-based people from many religious sects who are swingers.

Myth 10: All Swingers are Druggies.

Truth: Some swingers, like some people in our community, do explore drugs. There are also many swingers who do not use drugs. However, many swingers enjoy wine and other adult beverages.

Myth 11: Swingers are horrible parents and not really family oriented.

Fact / Truth: The truth is; dysfunctional parents are in any group of people. Swingers in general, are similar to non-swingers. Swingers seldom discuss their sex-life with their children.

Myth 12: All Women Who are Swingers are also Bisexual.

Truth: Contrary to this belief, many women who swing have no desire to be sexual with other women.

Myth 13: Swinger Wives are Sluts.

Fact / Truth: Whats a slut? If a slut is a woman who enjoys sex, then many wives are sluts. However, swinger wives are usually very selective who they have sex with. It is not uncommon for a swinger wife to choose her lover carefully.

Myth 14: Only Couples Who Have an Unsatisfied Sex Life Become Swingers.

Fact / Truth: Most swinger couples have incredible sex lives and choose to swing because it is a great avenue to share their sexual fantasies with others while being with their partner. Some swinging couples enjoy repeating those fantasies over and over.

Myth 15: Swingers Will Have Sex with Anyone and Will Have Any Type of Sex.

Truth: Swingers enjoy exploring many types of sexual experiences, however, they seldom will do anything they DO NOT want to do. Very seldom with any swinging couple PUSH others to do something they do not want to do. This is sort of an unspoken boundary among swingers.

Myth 16: Couples Use the Swinging Lifestyle to Repaire a Bad Marriage.

Fact / Truth: Swinging will not repair a bad marriage. Only couples with a solid bonded and loving relationship should enter the Swinging lifestyle. Swinging will not repair a bad relationship.

Myth 17: Swinging will Keep both partners from infidelity or cheating.

Truth: A partner who wants to cheat will cheat in a non-swinging relationship or in a swinging relationship. Cheaters usually cheat no matter what. Cheaters lie and are dishonest people.

Myth 18: Swingers Are Always Trying to Convince Non-Swingers to Become Swingers.

Fact / Truth: Swingers seldom promote swinging among non-swingers. Swinging couples are usually very private people and seldom discuss their sex life with people who are not of like-minds.

Myth 19: Couples Become Swingers Because they Do Not Love Their Partners.

Fact / Truth: Most Swinging couples are extremely in love with each other. They are bonded best friends. They want their partner to enjoy themselves sexually with them and with others.

Myth 20: Swingers Are Not Interested in Making Friends. It’s all about SEX.

Truth: Some swingers are only interested in having a great sexual experience with someone or another couple. However, some swingers meet other swingers who may have other things in common. It’s not uncommon for swinging couples to take vacations together, go camping or enjoy dinner parties together.

Myth 21: All Swingers are Low Income and Live in Mobile Home Parks.

Truth: Many swingers are educated and many are professionals in their field.  Some own houses, some may live in high rise condos and others may live in nice apartment complexes.  However, there are some very nice sexy swingers who enjoy living in mobile home parks.

Myth 22: You Can Spot a Swinger By How They are Always Wearing Revealing Clothes.

Truth: There is no way to identify a swinger by what they are wearing. Many non-swinging people like to dress sexy.

Myth 23: Couples Become Swingers to Make Themselves Better Lovers and Improve Sex Life.

Fact / Truth: The swinging lifestyle probably will not improve your sex life, however, it may help you to be less inhibited. If one partner is not interested in sex, most likely there is some other underlying issue that should address. Communication skills in any relationship is essential. The swinging lifestyle may not correct this problem.

Myth 24: All Men In the Swinging Lifestyle Are Well Endowed.

Fact / Truth: Men within the swinging lifestyle come in all penis sizes. However, some women who prefer men with larger penises may “shop” for a big penis – either online or at parties.

Myth 25: Jealousy is a BIG problem with Swingers

Fact/Truth: Actually, most swingers do not have jealousy issues. Swinging couples are usually very bonded and do not feel the attention of another person will separate them.

Myth 26: Couples Who Go to Swinger Parties Look Like Porn Stars

Fact / Truth: This is not true. Swingers in any city come in all age groups, race and size. Swinger parties are often a meet and greet occasion. It’s a great way to meet people. Most swingers are very friendly without being sexually pushy.

Myth 27: Swinger Parties are Nothing But Orgies

Fact / Truth: Swinger parties are usually meet and greet parties. There is usually a theme and you’ll know the attire before you go. Remember, go with a fun attitude and have a sort of go with the flow attitude. Remember, no means no and there is no pressure for you to do anything you do not want to do. Expect to experience nudity and other people engaged in sexual activities.  Yes, sometimes you will experience an orgy.